The process for Elder Mediation is very flexible. The mediator may meet or talk with the parties separately, or a joint meeting may be best. The mediator will take all steps necessary to accommodate the parties’ needs related to age, impairment, or stamina.
During mediation, the mediator works to facilitate fair and respectful communication. To that end, the mediator will ask questions and try to help the parties identify issues and understand the others’ concerns and points of view. Mediators do not take sides, nor will they force anyone into accepting an outcome they do not want. The parties will set ground rules, and the mediator will make sure that the discussion proceeds in a fair and safe manner. Once the parties reach a consensus, the agreement will be put in writing and everyone will receive a copy.